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- What's Inside the World's Most Secret Church? | Hoog (18:34)
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- Ex-Mormon Speaks Out - Why'd He Leave? 🇺🇸 | Peter Santenello (56:03)
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- Wiki page collecting LGBTQIA+ resources for exmormons
In light of the conversations sparked by recent trans-exclusionary policy updates, we thought it would be prudent to have a wiki page to collect resources that offer support for LGBTQIA+ individuals. It can be found at https://exmormon.miraheze.org/wiki/LGBTQIA+
We started the page with a few resources, but we would love some help aggregating more resources. If you know of a high-quality LGBTQ-friendly resource, please consider updating the page or commenting/messaging it here.
And of course, the primary intention of the page is to help potentially vulnerable and marginalized people feel hope and support. Especially if you have been negatively affected by the church, you're not alone. You deserve love and support.
- LGBTQ advocates say Mormon church's new transgender policies marginalize trans membersapnews.com LGBTQ advocates say Mormon church's new transgender policies marginalize trans members
The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints has issued a slew of new guidelines which would limit the role of transgender members in local congregations.
- Mormon church issues new restrictions on transgender memberswww.nbcnews.com Mormon church issues new restrictions on transgender members
The new policies include a measure to annotate trans members’ records, grouping them with members who have committed sexual violence or child abuse.
cross-posted from: https://lemmy.world/post/18947261
> The new policies include a measure to annotate trans members’ records, grouping them with members who have committed sexual violence or child abuse. > > The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, known widely as the Mormon church, issued a slew of new policies this week expanding its restrictions on transgender members. > > The policies, released Monday, include rules barring trans people from working with children, becoming priests and serving as teachers. The church also expanded on an existing rule that barred trans people from being baptized. > > Trans members will also face possible annotation on their membership records, grouping them with churchgoers who have committed incest, sexual predatory behavior, sexual violence against children and embezzlement of church funds.
Lest anyone think the Church is "coming around..."
- The Exmormon Wiki: A free, open resource to improve the lifespan, visibility, and accessibility of faith transition and deconstruction resources.
A friend and I have finally created a public exmormon wiki that's free for anyone to read and edit!
When I was deconstructing, I really wished there was a hub for all of the resources I needed. There is a ton of valuable content scattered around the internet, but it would have been great to have a one-stop-shop. So we made the resource I wish I had.
The (brand new) wiki at https://exmormon.miraheze.org is meant to accomplish this purpose. This wiki is designed to aggregate (as a community) our favorite community resources, historical and current events, essays about mormonism, and anything else that would be of value to someone experiencing a faith crisis or deconstruction.
This wiki is published in such a way that it can be available to anyone, free, forever. A nonprofit called Miraheze is generously willing to host our open-source MediaWiki site, and a plan for future-proofing the wiki is in the works (see a draft of our ideas and policies here).
As with any project like this, the greatest support needed right now is content generation and compilation. If you'd like to contribute, here are some ideas for (relatively painless) ways to do so:
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If you are posting or commenting with a very in-depth comment (with sources and meaningful insight) in this community, consider adding your remarks to the wiki as a new page (or an addition to an existing page) so that it has a longer lifespan. The creative-commons license of the wiki means there's no copyright licensing issue.
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If you've conducted research as part of your deconstruction, consider adding that research into the wiki. Pages don't need to be polished right off the bat; the important part is having resources available.
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If you have bookmarks of resources that have been valuable to you, consider adding links to the wiki.
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If you've been following a relevant news story or feel passionate about one, add a page about it starting with links to news articles.
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If you host or participate in an exmormon community (online or in-person), consider adding its details to the Communities page.
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If you are an exmormon content creator, consider adding (objective and fact-based) details about where people can find your content.
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If you've wanted to write your own "CES Letter"-type publication but haven't out of fear of judgment or lack of technical know-how, consider adding that content to the wiki.
Please feel free to contribute without fear. Just like other wikis, it's free and pretty simple to add and edit contents, and it's really hard for a public user to permanently damage the wiki. If you have questions or concerns, I'm active on Lemmy and my wiki talk page.
Of course, this wiki isn't meant to replace this community or any other resource. Rather, it's meant to give a long lifespan and improved visibility/accessibility to content that can support someone in their faith journey.
Thanks for your attention and time, and thanks for contributing to the wholesome community we have here. <3
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- Utah outlaws books by Judy Blume and Sarah J Maas in first statewide banwww.theguardian.com Utah outlaws books by Judy Blume and Sarah J Maas in first statewide ban
State has ordered books by 13 authors, 12 of them women, to be removed from every public school classroom and library
cross-posted from: https://lemmy.world/post/18400362
> State has ordered books by 13 authors, 12 of them women, to be removed from every public school classroom and library
- Can they pray it away?www.voanews.com Salt Lake City wildfire prompts mandatory evacuations
The fire department ordered a mandatory evacuation for an area of 40 homes on Sandhurst Drive, north of Dorchester Drive, and the police department was going to individual homes to notify residents
Honestly I hate wild fires; the smoke is no joke. It is horrible; and I hope they get it under control soon.
Thoughts and prayers…
- "Thought-Terminating Cliches"
cross-posted from: https://lemmy.world/post/15464125
> "Thought-Terminating Cliches"
- I wrote some anti-mormon lies.www.elementalepistles.com I wrote some anti-mormon lies.
I’ve been accused of spreading anti-mormon lies and propaganda. Oh no! They got me! Guess I’ve been Deceived by Satan. Drank The World’s kool-aid. The serpent beguiled me, as it were. How dare my 60,000 word essay about my experience in the church not promote the message mormonism pushes. Now that I...
- Does Mormonism Encourage Shunning?www.elementalepistles.com Does Mormonism Encourage Shunning?
While I was a missionary, we were encouraged to participate in a local program with the goal of reactivating people who weren’t coming to church anymore. It was based on 3 Nephi 18:30 (in the Book of Mormon): Nevertheless, ye shall not cast him out from among you, but ye shall minister unto him and ...
- I Hate Easter
I hate Easter. Pretty much always have and I think I always will. Let’s all freak out about Jesus pulling a hat trick. Well guess what folks, zombies aren’t real so Jesus didn’t pop out of a tomb after three days. Sorry for the spoiler.
But my biggest issue with it is the religious fanatics. Like people seem to lose their minds over the Jesus shit. This guy for example wants to rearrange an entire baseball schedule. My in laws are going to cram 25 people into a house that can’t fit more than 10. All because of Zombie Jesus. Thank you Zombie Jesus for ruining my spring every year, asshat.
- A little random, but I now believe Brandon Sanderson is probably one of us, or at least PIMO
So religion is a pretty common theme in his books. Stormlight and Elantris (more for the latter) have heavy religious influence.
I'm reading Elantris now, and I can't imagine a man who understands religion as well as he does (based on his writing) believes anything about the TSCC. This thought just came to mind as he's describing how the one dude knows how to manipulate the masses, using their pride and shame to his own ends.
Anywho, just throwing that out there. 🤷
Have a great weekend, and a lovely second Saturday everyone!
- Black student at Hawaii Mormon school says he’s fighting order to cut hairwww.theguardian.com Black student at Hawaii Mormon school says he’s fighting order to cut hair
Kanaan VyShonne Barton says he’s following all other school rules but shouldn’t have to cut his hair: ‘My locs represent strength’
cross-posted from: https://lemmy.world/post/13341770
> Kanaan VyShonne Barton says he’s following all other school rules but shouldn’t have to cut his hair: ‘My locs represent strength’ > > A Black student at a Mormon university in Hawaii said he has been told by staff to cut his shoulder-length hair because it does not adhere to school policies, he said. > > Kanaan VyShonne Barton, a student at Brigham Young University-Hawaii, told the Salt Lake Tribune he has been engaged in a battle with the school since September over the length of his hair, which he has refused to cut. > > The university requires students to follow an “honor code”, which states hair should be “neatly trimmed”, although the code has no official guidance on length.
- Polygamous sect member pleads guilty in scheme to orchestrate sexual acts involving childrenapnews.com Polygamous sect member pleads guilty in scheme to orchestrate sexual acts involving children
A businessman has pleaded guilty to conspiring with the leader of an offshoot polygamous sect near the Arizona-Utah border to transport underage girls across state lines.
cross-posted from: https://lemmy.ca/post/17782490
> A businessman pleaded guilty Tuesday to conspiring with the leader of an offshoot polygamous sect near the Arizona-Utah border to transport underage girls across state lines, making him the first man to be convicted in what authorities say was a scheme to orchestrate sexual acts involving children. > > Moroni Johnson, who faces 10 years to life in prison, acknowledged that he participated in a scheme to transport four girls under the age of 18 for sexual activity. Authorities say the conspiracy between the 53-year-old Johnson and the sect’s leader, self-proclaimed prophet Samuel Bateman, occurred over a three-year period ending in September 2022. > > Authorities say Bateman had created a sprawling network spanning at least four states as he tried to start an offshoot of the Fundamentalist Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, which historically has been based in the neighboring communities of Colorado City, Arizona, and Hildale, Utah. He and his followers practice polygamy, a legacy of the early teachings of the mainstream Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, which abandoned the practice in 1890 and now strictly prohibits it. Bateman and his followers believe polygamy brings exaltation in heaven.
- Church Claims Activism a Tactic of Satan and Gaslights Memberswasmormon.org Church Claims Activism a Tactic of Satan and Gaslights Members - wasmormon.org
Brother Ahmad S. Corbitt, the then First Counselor in the Young Men General Presidency, gave a talk to LDS Chaplains, on October 4, 2022, in which he teaches against activism directed towards the church. He doesn't want members getting any ideas that they can influence or change things the church do...
- Former Mormon bishop highlighted in AP investigation arrested on felony child sex abuse chargesapnews.com Former Mormon bishop highlighted in AP investigation arrested on felony child sex abuse charges
A former bishop in The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints who was featured in an Associated Press investigation of how the church protects itself from sexual abuse allegations was arrested this week.
- The biggest lie in Mormonism
“Men are that they might have joy.”
Have you ever noticed that when you’re enjoying yourself, it’s probably a sin?
Sex, drugs, rock ‘n roll… Normal things that normal people enjoy, alcohol in moderation, R-rated movies, chatting with friends at the pub, having a hobby, women having a career.
And Mormons are told that we’re never doing enough church stuff. Read scriptures more, pray more, fast more, do more family history, go to the temple more, spend more time in your calling, more home and visiting teaching. It’s not only exhausting, it’s dour.
- Infamous mommy vlogger Ruby Franke sentenced to up to 60 years for child abusewww.msnbc.com Infamous mommy vlogger Ruby Franke sentenced to up to 60 years for child abuse
At her sentencing hearing, the mom influencer apologized to her children, adding, “I was so disoriented that I believed dark was light and right was wrong.”
cross-posted from: https://lemmy.world/post/12204794
> Infamous mommy vlogger Ruby Franke sentenced to up to 60 years for child abuse > > Ruby Franke, a once-popular online mom influencer with millions of followers, has been sentenced to four one- to 15-year terms in prison for child abuse. > > Franke pleaded guilty in December to four counts of aggravated abuse against her children. She and her business partner, Jodi Hildebrandt, had each been charged with six counts of felony child abuse in September. > > Utah Judge John J. Walton sentenced both to four one- to 15-year terms on Tuesday, but state law limits the maximum aggregate sentence for consecutive terms to 30 years. The Utah Board of Pardons and Parole will determine the length of time they will spend behind bars, NBC News reported. > > For years, the 42-year-old mother documented her strict parenting style with her husband Kevin Franke and her six children on her YouTube channel, “8 Passengers.” She and Hildebrandt also doled out parenting advice in videos.
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To our Trans family, you are loved and needed. If you need support please know you can find it here.
- Interview with BYU ex-deanovercast.fm Inside the Mormon Church — We Dissent
Alison, Liz, and Rebecca interview Anaya Gayle—lawyer, ex-Mormon, and former BYU assistant dean. They discuss the power and influence the church wields and life for LGBTQ+ students at BYU, as Anaya shares her experience inside the insular LDS…
- I went to church stoned today
Recreational cannabis use is legal here. I took some before church, hoping to make the two hours more enjoyable.
When I walked into the chapel, I felt happy and relaxed and really good. That’s when I realized how I’m supposed to feel at church, and the fact that I never have.