Lemmy.ml mods removed your post because that community isn't supposed to be for technical/support questions. They're also super inconsistent with enforcing that rule, and I'd guess they did so in this case because they are ideologically opposed to anyone paying for anything 🙄
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The folks who run the communick.news Lemmy instance also offer managed Lemmy hosting: https://communick.com/lemmy
Though I am not a customer and cannot say what their service is like.