She's always child-free. She has oldest kids 50% of the time and L is at Nana K’s every single day all day while Sarah goes shopping, takes selfies, gets her hair done, and filters her photos. This is delusional.
I'm not trolling. I've seen posts in this group for weeks since you were evicted from Reddit. I don't understand why you are so obsessed with her and why she lives rent free in so many people's heads. I originally though this was an incel group since you sound like incels but then I realized that it was a hate group for a single person. I don't know her. I hadn't even heard of her until you lot started spewing your hate here on Lemmy. I don't care about her or any of you. I am just trying to understand.
The group info doesn't tell me what she is doing that effects you personally. What has she done that has made you so obsessed that you keep coming back here to participate in the hate rather than just ignoring her and going on with your life?
Her platform has had a detrimental effect on people’s self-esteem and they way they perceive themselves since this particular person uses the same techniques as an abused to draw you in and become invested. Her platform, on tne surface, stands for body confidence, family and acceptance but once your eyes are open you see she manipulates her image while telling people she never uses filters, photoshop or cosmetic procedures. You realize she is just after money and fame and cares about nothing and no one but herself. Her brand of body confidence is making women feel self-conscious about things they had never thought about before but it can be fixed if you just click her link.
She has weaponized mental health problems to shield herself from any kind of criticism and if someone questions her she turns it back on the questioner and says they have received her image, her message in a way she did not intend. It’s all intentional and calculated.
She has groomed people around her to believe she’s only about truth and kindness so they are blindly supporting her while she presents a false public image. She’s a salesperson who is violating disclosure laws. This isn’t a page of hate. This is a page where people who were hurt by her can gather and hopefully be a soft landing for the people who will come after. Congratulations on your weigh loss.
All of that makes sense. I think that's true of everyone who is an "influencer". I put "influencer" in quotes because I don't really think they have any influence at all. They're really just bloggers.
It reminds me of a cosplay girl who posts the most incredible photos of herself in costume. She's gorgeous and built like a concrete outhouse. When you find pictures of what she really looks like it's shocking. In the pictures she's gorgeous and curvy but in reality she's...plain. I assumed that she was doing some work on the photos but the difference was shocking. It made me laugh and then I just walked away. I didn't get obsessed and join a hate group. In the end I realized that it meant nothing to me that she was fake.
Good for you. I think you are having trouble looking at something from a different point of view and don’t realize everyone doesn’t think the way you do. Your question has been answered and you don’t understand us. It’s perfectly fine not to understand and now you can just walk away from this place too
You seem to know a lot! Can you explain to us how we are toxic? Why are we the toxic ones for feeling betrayed by someone? I’m guessing you maybe also enjoy lying and manipulating and that is why you think we should give a pass to influencers who lie and deceive, or as you said “she’s pretty” so of course the pretty rich white women should be allowed to lie and if we don’t like it we should just turn a blind eye. This is a group of intelligent people literally just having a conversation about influencers and you come in here cursing and being rude and we’re the toxic ones?
Multiple people have told me to stop asking questions and walk away. That's pretty toxic. "Leave us to our hate filled echo bunker and go away!"
Why are we the toxic ones for feeling betrayed by someone?
You're absolutely not toxic for feeling betrayed. It is toxic to obsess and to constantly moan about it. Maybe it's time to let go of your hurt feelings and move on wather than constantly looking at what she's doing and wallowing in your hurt feelings?
I’m guessing you maybe also enjoy lying and manipulating and that is why you think we should give a pass to influencers who lie and deceive,
Ad hominem? That's pretty toxic.
or as you said “she’s pretty” so of course the pretty rich white women should be allowed to lie and if we don’t like it we should just turn a blind eye.
Straw man? That's pretty toxic.
This is a group of intelligent people literally just having a conversation about influencers and you come in here cursing and being rude and we’re the toxic ones?
Sorry...cursing? Did I curse? I'm asking questions and trying to engage in conversation to gain an understanding of the roots of this toxic community. Calling someone who asks questions toxic because they don't share your beliefs but are trying to understand is incredibly toxic.
EDIT: I went back and looked and I said the word "fucking" exactly once as an adjective to toxic when I was told that I should just let the echo bunker have its toxic circle jerk and walk away. I stand by that use of the word, "fucking".
This reeks of mansplaining, Maple and you’re getting worked up because your feelings are hurt. It’s okay that you don’t understand what we are about but stop discounting it due to your ignorance.
Just block them. They don’t want to get it. Some people are so strange.
Imagine seeing a group of people meeting in public and butting in yelling “explain to me what you’re all talking about” and a few people try and explain and the person just keeps yelling nonsensical things at them that have nothing to do with the conversation and then tells the group that was just minding their own business that they’re the toxic ones?
Yea this person has no idea how to behave around strangers.
Not worked up. No hurt feelings. You're projecting.
I saw the posts going by in All and saw that they were incredibly toxic. I read the info and saw that it was so toxic in fact that it had been banned by Reddit which is a fetid cesspool of toxicity so it made me curious. I'm just asking questions to try to understand why you can't simply walk away. It's the members of this community that are getting worked up and their feelings hurt because someone is questioning the group think.
No I still don’t understand. We aren’t moaning and whining we’re having a discussion, there are also a few reporters in this group compiling an article. You keep putting things in quote marks like they were said to you in this group and I’m having a hard time finding when they were said to you so I’m getting a little lost. I understand if you are one of those people that sees things they don’t like and believes that everyone should just look the other way but we aren’t like that and it seems strange to come in here and chastise people for wanting to create change. I have a feeling you don’t want to see what we’re talking about though and it’s more fun and easier for you to come in here and name call and make us feel bad.
I think you're reading what's happening in this group through rose colored glasses. This community is highly toxic. It's so toxic that it was banned from Reddit. Reddit. That's toxic.
The reaction of the group when I made my first comment was very angry. I poked the hornet's nest. When I started asking questions multiple people told me to mind my own business and walk away. That's highly toxic. Protect the scho bunker at all costs and all.
I've grown borded of this discussion. I got a couple of good answers from people who were hoping that it would make me go away and stop asking questions but they then reverted to personal attacks and amateur psychoanalysis.
I'll leave you to your hate, now. Have a good day.
Huh? They answered your questions and you called them toxic for no reason. Clearly you are only here to rile up some sort of response and are upset you didn’t get it. No one owes you any kind of explanation, especially when you’re not engaging in good faith. Leave them alone.
I’m sorry you read it that way because it wasn’t my intent. You seem to have an unconscious bias that you are being attacked in some way. I didn’t take personal offence to you proclaiming this a hate group when it is not yet you call me after I politely tell you this isn’t the place for you.
You seem to have an unconscious bias that you are being attacked in some way.
You're projecting. That seems to be a recurring theme in this group. This very clearly is a hate group. In fact, it's so clearly a hate group that it was banned by Reddit which is a fetid cesspool of hate. I just came here to ask questions to try to understand why a group of people are so obsessed with someone who is literally a nobody. The simple act of asking a question poked the hornets nest and got angry responses.
If you react angrily to someone asking questions about why you're doing what you're doing you need to seriously reconsider what you're doing.
It was more than likely banned by Reddit because the influencer in question lawyered up and threatened them with legal action (the way it happened was very strange and she alluded to taking legal action against “haters” a week or two prior). She also served a reporter, Janette Ewen, with a cease and desist letter because she didn’t like being called out for her actions. Honest people with nothing to hide don’t go to such lengths to cover their tracks. Influencers are scared because they know people are starting to question them.
I also find it ironic that you’re here accusing others of telling you to leave when that’s exactly what you’re doing. We have a right to be here just like you do and if you don’t like it then why are you spending your time and energy arguing? Others have engaged with your questions meaningfully and you have only doubled down on your attacks.