It's funny, but not funny haha how transphobia necessarily replaces being chill and cool. It's such a centralizing belief that all your interactions and pontifications revolve around some sort of authenticity of nature and wearing masks and shit. It's like yeah, I like masks, but only after I exercise the dark spirit of Majora out of them or wear them at fancy parties while in a cop&robber romance.
When you reach the transvestigate point of transphobia I don't think you can become a normal person anymore, atleast not without the same level of re-education that the did for former nazis