Curious to hear other thoughts about this, as I'm trying to keep !simracing@lemmy.ml active, but might suggest to move it elsewhere if a lot of people prefer not to interact with lemmy.ml communities
I don’t refrain from participating in Lemmy.ml community unless the mods of that community act like the admins do. The majority of users aren’t my issue with Lemmy.ml at least on the non political communities, it’s the admin’s suppression of opposition
This succinctly covers my view on it as well. I think it'll be more of a problem a few years down the road as statist admin culture begins to influence the mods of more instances, but for now I treat it on an instance-by-instance, user-by-user basis. I wouldn't be surprised if majority of community leaders and users in general went to lemmy.ml simply because it was one of the larger instances last year and didn't think much more of it than that.
If I have a choice, though, I'll still try to grow a community on one of the smaller instances simply because it's still one of the largest ones, and that's better for the health of the network.