"...if Minnesota had 26 less people in the 2020 census this map would be 269-269 instead of a Harris win... 26 people in Minnesota completely flip the outcome of the entire presidential election"
In that moment, I was just so dumbfounded as I listened to this person explain to me how, like, Nebraska should get more electoral votes than New York and pointing out to me how there was so much more red area on the map than blue, and how that oughta count for something.
I basically don't go to any of the events, just everyone I seem to meet is a neurodivergent polyamorous person of some sort. I did go to a few a couple of years ago, just wasn't my crowd (except for the occasional new person who also went for the same reason). I tend to be very 1-1 with my partners