If you don’t want to have your intelligence insulted, try showing some. Your analogy was horribly wrong and your entire point flies in the face of why lemmy was designed to be the way it is.
And you have the nerve to complain about Reddit behavior? Dude, what you’re suggesting is EXACTLY why people left Reddit. You’re trying to strongarm someone into taking what they spent their time and effort on and force them to make it the way YOU want it to be.
Either get your head out of your ass, or go make your own instance where you can rule it exactly as you want it to be.
Learn how to have an adult conversation without insults. Maybe look up ad hominem attacks and why people do them. It's because they have weak arguments so they attack the person instead. Just. Like. You.