Pirating AI models

So it is convenient and all to use chatGPT from open AI site and to use other AI models on their official sites, but doesn't feel like a pirate when doing this am I wrong? like OpenAI staff spying on my discussion with my waifu persona I given to ChatGPT, or Midjourney creators knowing about every picture of John Oliver I created with their discord bot, Also you are only allowed to use chatGPT 3.5 and need to pay for GPT 4 (20$ a month for a limited use wtf) so are there any islands where the pirate can do what he does comfortably?

there are Telegram bots. Also Quora suggests multiple AI models on https://poe.com/ . but I'm curious if there exists some compilation of pirated useful AI tools

EDIT: Thank you everyone from inside and outside this instance.