Thoughts on telling a co-worker you find them attractive?
Thoughts on telling a co-worker you find them attractive?
I'm into a co-worker. Nothing indicates he's interested or even into guys, but I'm bad at reading social cues. He knows I'm not straight and we talk regularly at work.
It feels like it's obvious I like him, but again, social cues. I was thinking about saying something direct and just being honest, but I don't want to stress him out. I don't expect him to like me back, but that would be great.
I guess I'm asking how uncool is it to communicate that to someone at work?
Edit - I just wanted to say thanks and I hear what a lot of you are saying. I was under the assumption that being around someone you like and not telling them you like them is dishonest and unfair. It turns out I need to reevaluate some things about myself.
I need to be careful and I don't want to risk making work worse for me/alienate another person who's trying to work in peace.
I'm just glad I got to talk about the feeling somewhere shit once. Thanks again!
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Don't shit where you eat - if it doesn't work you can't walk away from the resulting mess without quitting your job.
THIS. Never date anyone at work. "Oh but I know someone who-" No. Stop.
This is very good advice, and that really sucks since for a lot of people work makes up a whole-ass third to over half of their waking hours while simultaneously cannibalizing most if not all remaining energy to socialize outside of work
I'm speaking from experience. I tried it once and it was just a humiliating nightmare. But it does suck as you said, because once you're out of school it's significantly harder to socialize and meet new people outside of work.