You can really mess yourself up trying to fit into a neurotypical world. The biggest problem is these people don't understand that just because you can't see something doesn't mean it's not there.
In the UK it is official healthcare policy to deny the existence of this problem for as long as possible. It is estimated that around 30% of the male prison population has ADHD.
One of my favourite pastimes is denying the existence of neurotypical behaviour, those unstated social rules like starting conversations with small talk, fuck that noise.
I want that kind of job environment instead of constantly having to work with toxic men who constantly make sexist and homophobic jokes that make me super uncomfortable. 🥺