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Gender Identity Scale

I've recently begun going through a bit of a personal renaissance regarding my gender, and I realized my numbers-focused brain needs something to quantify gender identity, both for myself and so I can better understand others. I also just don't like socially-constructed labels, at least for myself.

So, using the Kinsey Scale of Sexuality as inspiration, and with input from good friends, I made up my own Gender Identity Scale.

  • Three axes: X, Y, and Z
  • X: Man (not necessarily masculinity), 0 to 6
  • Y: Woman (not necessarily femininity), 0 to 6
  • Z: Fluidity, 0 to 2
  • X and Y axes' numbers go from 0 - not part of my identity to 6 - strongly identify as
  • Z axis's numbers go from 0 - non-fluid to 2 - always changing

Example: The average cis-man is 6,0,0, the average cis-woman is 0,6,0, and a "balanced" nonbinary person might be 3,3,1, or 0,0,0, or 6,6,2..

Personally, I think I'm about a 3,2,1 - I don't have a strong connection to either base gender, but being biologically male, I do identify a bit more as a man. I also feel that I'm somewhat gender-fluid, but not entirely so. I honestly don't fully understand gender fluidity yet, so the Z-axis may require some tweaking.

Does this make sense? Can you use this to accurately quantify your own gender identity? I wanna know!

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  • Okay so this was created as a joke, but take a look at

    The deeper and longer you think about gender the more you realize it's all made up words to try and describe a feeling. It's meant as a joke but like these can all be gender too. Some people have strong feelings, others don't. If ascribing numbers helps you quantify that feeling, that's super fucking cool and I'm happy for you!

    On your scale I'm solidly a 0 for male and female. I'm not sure how to interpret fluidity in this context either, meaning I'm probably not a good fit for your model. But that's okay, I'm super weird and enjoy breaking everyone's preconceived notions, in fact few things make me more euphoric than opening people eyes to the diversity and beauty in the world! 🎉💜

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