!enoughmuskspam@lemmy.world calling for violence and me getting banned for asking why the mods are all good with it?

They're talking about Elon Musk (a person who deserves a punch in the face) deserving to be punched in the face. They're doing this in the community dedicated to talking about punching Elon Musk in the face. And you're whining about people talking about punching Elon Musk in the face, in the community where they talk about punching Elon Musk in the face.

To quote your own words: "are you fucking retarded?"

This is like going to the Fortnite forums, asking why everyone there likes Fortnite so much, and then saying Fortnite sucks. Even if it's true, you're still in the wrong place.