Pronouns

This isn't actually a real issue. Your language preference isn't the same as someone pushing you to change your own pronouns.

Thanks for being receptive to treating people with decency (I mean that), but this conflict you are perceiving isn't actually a thing. Unisex and gender neutral in this context mean the same thing -- this is just the more commonly used term in this era, but that's just because patterns of language usage have changed.