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What's something that turns you on, but isn't necessarily sexual itself?

I, for example, am very turned on by contrasts. So noticeable height differences, size differences (individual body parts or the whole package), skin tone, shapes, etc.

I kinda wish my wife (who's very pale) were bi because I would love to see her have sex with a dark skinned woman that's a similar height and weight as her, or a short, petite woman (she's also tall for a woman).

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  • On the subject of contrasts: You show me four women and I'd pick the one who is apparently different, every time. Three blondes and a brunette? Three brunettes and a blonde? Three sundresses and shorts and t-shirt? I'll pick "the ___ one" every time.

    Thunderstorms. I am not aroused by thunderstorms, but they're great fucking weather. I don't know if it's because it's cooler, if it's the background noise, the lighting, but my ideal sex scenario has a summer afternoon thunderstorm going on outside.

    • On the subject of contrasts: You show me four women and I’d pick the one who is apparently different, every time. Three blondes and a brunette? Three brunettes and a blonde? Three sundresses and shorts and t-shirt? I’ll pick “the ___ one” every time.

      I wonder if you can run a small scientific test, where the same two women each take turns as the odd one out.

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