Oooh I like this a lot, it is more than the usual 'have the confidence of a straight white man' or smth I see which hehe fun and empowering but at the expense of an entire gender.
You don't deserve downvotes for your statement though. It's not like you were being contrary or intentional obtuse just contributing to the discussion.
"have the confidence of a straight white man" is not at the expense of an entire gender, unless one considers white men who are straight to be the only men.