Hesitation is weaker, if you don't know history of the instance but still want to record and issue. Censure is a stronger complaint, for example if the issues have been ongoing or you know the admin is misbehaving rather than just overworked or something like it
I might be wrong since I'm new to lemmy, but the poster is from domain sopuli.xyz, and you've linked instance info on unfufadoo.net, so I'm confused about what you're saying.