I haven’t played any From Software so my opinion is invalid but I’m with you, when Elden Ring came out and new players started on that game, it seemed that the common response to them was “git gud”.
Edit: having now read the article, it basically says the same thing as my post along with the fact that they don’t plan to make it easier.
I'm on a lv 150, no ng. I have not finished the DLC yet. But I've beaten two remnamce bosses so far (no summons). And while they were difficult and full of bullshit as usual. It was simply a matter of getting good.