I started balding in my late teens. Shaved my head for the first time at 20. Never looked back. Wished I'd done it sooner.
Still remember an offhand comment from a girl who said I have a nice shaped head.
A quick once over with the clippers once a week and you're good.
Whatever you decided to do don't stress about it! I'm sure that will only make it worse.
Bonus: the freshly shaved head acts as velcro to keep your hat on during windy days!
See I have a lumpy awful shaped head but thankfully I'm 37 with thick full hair still, so I might be in the clear. I know what you're saying though, I bet you looks good with a shaved head!! Honestly some people look better bald (not me though)