Project Hail Mary by Andy Weir. Just finished the audiobook and thought it was fantastic. It could be technical at times like The Martian, but I find that stuff interesting.
I asked a similar question right after I finished The Expanse and the response I received was to read Revelation Space. Needless to say I wasn't disappointed!
I'm working on The Culture series by Ian Banks now.
Oh I guess not quite the same, but when anyone asks for a recommendation in sci-fi, I always say "the mote in God's eye" by Jerry pournelle and Larry niven
Not as large a scale as those books, but a fascinating story told in a unique and scientific way.
Excellent suggestion! The Mote in God's Eye is a classic. I really love the whole "...and on the gripping hand, as the Moties would say..." phrasing that came from that book :D
Yeah the alien race was just so real to me the first time I read it, not particularly in how their society was structured, or their biology or anything else, but just how that world was relayed to the reader made that universe so much more real to me than many other first contact stories.
Old man's war is quite fun. If I remember correctly it starts by doing the whole Full Metal Jacket bit where the first book is half boot camp then half war time. So it's familiar in feel yet funa and original in content.
While not super familiar with the expanse, I was extremely impressed with the "Enderverse" series. Both the Ender saga and accompanying Shadows saga build an amazing universe with rich lore and extremely humane characters.
In all honesty, "Enders Game" that started the series is probably the simplest and least interesting of all the books that followed.
Read them for the first time at the age of 45 and could not stop till I reached the recent final entry.
When I read Enders Game, no one told me what to expect, so I was thoroughly surprised by where it went. Highly recommend it to people if they don’t know enough to ruin the story.
There's a bunch of books similar to The Expanse, but not all of them live up to what makes _The Expanse great, the hard science, but here's some that I'd suggest to itch that Space Opera itch you're having trouble scratching:
I'll throw in my 2 cents. Children of time is a good trilogy, especially if you like biology but the 1st book was the best with each following book being weaker than the last. Definitely worth reading though as it scratches that hard sci-fi itch.
I'd also add the Remembrance of Earth's Past trilogy to this list, it's the only series that almost matches The Expanse in terms of pure greatness IMO. I read them a few months ago and I find myself thinking about the concepts and ideas introduced in the trilogy every few days still. Absolutely amazing books that any sci-fi fan should try. I will say that the characters are for the most part, pretty boring and don't come anywhere near the greatness of The Expanse's characters. It's the main complaint I see about those books are the fairly dull characters. The ideas and concepts the trilogy introduces are absolutely fascinating though, even better than anything from The Expanse IMO and it easily makes up for the lackluster characters. It's also fairly hard sci-fi like The Expanse and relies a fair bit on semi-realistic (for the most part) science like The Expanse does. Beware that these books have a fairly pessimistic view of the universe, but that's also what helps make the books so good.
I've gone back to The Three Body Problem multiple times since my first read just so I can re-read my favorite scenes from the book and those books almost single handedly reignited my love for space. I can't recommend them enough.
Stephen Baxter wrote the Xeelee Sequence. There are quite a few books to read, and it encompasses the entire history of the universe. Lot’s of amazing science within the realm of nonfiction, assuming life were simply more prolific.
Try Commonwealth Saga by Hamilton. It's three doorstoppers long and author sometimes excessive with descriptions, but, as space operas goes, it's magnificent.
If you want fun politics and war in the entire solar system, I recommend Red Rising and the the subsequent 2 novels (I haven’t read beyond that). The characters are incredibly sentimental but it was really fun to read. It doesn’t start off anything like The Expanse but politics within the entire solar system and divisions between the outer planets and asteroid belt were reminiscent of some scenarios.
If you want a more philosophical and hard science exploration of Humanity expanding beyond our solar system, dealing with long term evolution and exploring sentience in other species, I like Children of Time and the followup books.
Neither are very similar to Expanse but both series are great.
I've only read his Omega Force and Marine books (they're not great literature by any means, but definitely a guilty pleasure for mindless, campy sci-fi action). I'll have to check out Black Fleet as I'm about to wrap up the final Cosmere book and want some good sci-fi for a change of pace.
Luna series by Ian MacDonald. Luna:New Moon, Luna : Wolf Moon, and Luna: Moon Rising. These books are set in the near future. Family clans have control of most of the Moon's resources. The books do a great job of showing the new society.