I use reddit for special interests. There are some subreddits which are unmatched sources in terms of expertise. Be it a game I am currently obsessed by or serious job related discussions about the newest embedded tech...
It's sooo hard to get away from games. You've either got Discord which is a shit show, or reddit which is an ad riddled shit show, but at least the comment and discussions are relatively structured.
Relay for Reddit will always be my favorite. It had a nice tablet mode and the "swipe to do everything" interface was nice.
I have yet to find a decent replacement for it. Voyager is alright but I swear that it was designed to maximize unintentional button presses. It's so easy to accidentally go to the community or the user's profile when I just wanted to click on the post. And I can't even count the number of times I accidentally collapsed a comment when I was trying to edit or upvote it instead.
I miss Relay so much, but unfortunately the developer decided to play by Reddit's rules and start charging people to use the app. So it's never coming to Lemmy.
Oh let's look at the comments, downvote, ohh shit I need to, collapse, fuuuuck, uncollapse, inadvertently scrolls up now that it expanded, Hunt down the exact right one, swipe to upvote, miss, back to zero, sigh, carefully swipe over to upvote, tap for comments, end up in user's profile....... It's not really an app that you can surf until you've had your coffee.
Have you tried Thunder? I've been using it since I finally got around to moving over here (admittedly not very long) and I've found that Thunder gets a lot right. It's open source, ad-free, cross-platform, and nice to use. It doesn't have quite as much polish as Relay but the design language is similar enough that it doesn't feel like a huge departure.
I've only been on lemmy for like a week, so I have no point of comparison here. It doesn't feel janky to me, but then I'm not a power user. It works well for what I like to do, which is view posts and comment. Images display well, I haven't noticed any problems with video. I haven't tried embedding images in comments yet, let's try it with a photograph of the richest man in Indiana:
Give Thunder a second shot, or don't. I'm not your boss, I'm just some drunk guy on the Internet.
I have the client for animelab which hasn't existed since they got absorbed into crunchyroll. Maybe I'm just holding a grudge but I think there's value in remembering what they took from you.