404 /api/v3/user/login when logging in

Hello, I've been trying to host my own lemmy instance for a little while now but have yet to be successful.

I recently had my lemmy instance running but i could not find other communities, so i decided to remove everything and try again. Now however when i try to create an account or log in i get the error 404 for the file /api/v3/user/loginand nothing happens.

I've tried removing everything again and starting again but it is still not working

in the lemmy docker container i get the following error

2023-07-06T12:27:55.845049Z  WARN lemmy_server::root_span_builder: couldnt_find_that_username_or_email: Record not found
   1: lemmy_server::root_span_builder::HTTP request
   0: lemmy_api::local_user::login::perform
             at crates/api/src/local_user/login.rs:16
           with http.method=POST http.scheme="http" http.host=lemmy.emphisia.nl http.target=/api/v3/user/login otel.kind="server" request_id=7896c156-ba9f-42cd-8f1a-c0233c3018a7
LemmyError { message: Some("couldnt_find_that_username_or_email"), inner: Record not found, context: SpanTrace [{ target: "lemmy_api::local_user::login", name: "perform", fields: "self=Login { username_or_email: Sensitive, password: Sensitive, totp_2fa_token: None }", file: "crates/api/src/local_user/login.rs", line: 16 }, { target: "lemmy_server::root_span_builder", name: "HTTP request", fields: "http.method=POST http.scheme=\"http\" http.host=lemmy.emphisia.nl http.target=/api/v3/user/login otel.kind=\"server\" request_id=7896c156-ba9f-42cd-8f1a-c0233c3018a7", file: "src/root_span_builder.rs", line: 16 }] }
           with self=Login { username_or_email: Sensitive, password: Sensitive, totp_2fa_token: None }
             at src/root_span_builder.rs:16

edit: i just managed to log in, however the federation does not seem to be working. None show up in the communities tab and if i look for any communities i get no results and this in the log

2023-07-06T14:09:32.699162Z  WARN lemmy_server::root_span_builder: couldnt_find_object: Failed to resolve actor via webfinger

   0: lemmy_apub::fetcher::search::search_query_to_object_id

             at crates/apub/src/fetcher/search.rs:19

   1: lemmy_apub::api::resolve_object::perform

           with self=ResolveObject { q: "!asklemmy", auth: Sensitive }

             at crates/apub/src/api/resolve_object.rs:21

   2: lemmy_server::root_span_builder::HTTP request

           with http.method=GET http.scheme="http" http.host=lemmy.emphisia.nl http.target=/api/v3/resolve_object otel.kind="server" request_id=34386e88-9099-4d83-a6a2-360ee7924064

             at src/root_span_builder.rs:16

LemmyError { message: Some("couldnt_find_object"), inner: Failed to resolve actor via webfinger, context: SpanTrace [{ target: "lemmy_apub::fetcher::search", name: "search_query_to_object_id", file: "crates/apub/src/fetcher/search.rs", line: 19 }, { target: "lemmy_apub::api::resolve_object", name: "perform", fields: "self=ResolveObject { q: \"!asklemmy\", auth: Sensitive }", file: "crates/apub/src/api/resolve_object.rs", line: 21 }, { target: "lemmy_server::root_span_builder", name: "HTTP request", fields: "http.method=GET http.scheme=\"http\" http.host=lemmy.emphisia.nl http.target=/api/v3/resolve_object otel.kind=\"server\" request_id=34386e88-9099-4d83-a6a2-360ee7924064", file: "src/root_span_builder.rs", line: 16 }] }

it doesn't matter what i search, this always happens