Wow, you almost wrote a book here, now I wonder, why do you care so much? π¬
Gonewild is the entrypoint for nsfw on lemmy, widest audience of both men and women. I don't see women downvoting other women here, why is that guys can't refrain from opening an obvious male post when they could just pass is the real question π€·ββοΈ
On the other hand nude dudes community is low traffic, and followed mostly by gay dudes.
As a straight guy (yup, sorry guys π ) that likes to post naked pics for them to be seen, possibly by women, it's only logical I'd post in gw, where they do belong as you noted. It's not about post being deleted, they don't. It's about being shutdown and hidden from anyone not browsing by new.
I was on your side until this. Being open minded and sexual preferences are not the same thing. I personally don't come on here to see dicks and dudes but that doesn't mean I'm closed minded.
And you have to admit most of the audience here are dudes looking for "straight" porn, you threw yourself out there and I applaud you for it. But you know there's gonna be flack about it.
Oh no I didn't mean open minded as in sexual preference, only in the "it's ok if dudes post in gonewild too" way π As mentionned elsewhere I'm straight as well, and if I don't want to see a dick I just don't look at a pic behind a [m] π€·ββοΈ