It was incel nonsense blaming the murdered woman for not picking a nice guy and complaining about nice guys being lonely. You missed nothing by not being able to read it.
Seriously, that shit helps a lot. Just having a knowledgeable party that's kind of able to help calibrate and understand your own responses is very cathartic.
Edit: I made a snarky comment, but I think you would be better served looking up why abusive relationships are so complicated. It's more than women picking shitty guys, there are layers of manipulative behavior and the creation of a constant state of dependence and fear. Oftentimes, you don't realize how shitty someone is until you are deep into the relationship, sometimes you don't realize it all.
This is not simple women picking shitty men, there is so much more going on here and you shouldn't distill it down to something so simple
Wow. Way to victim blame the woman for marrying someone she assumed wouldn't kill her. Like WTF is this incel logic? You're not a good man killing yourself out of loneliness. You're a douche bag who doesn't see WHY they're alone.
It could be viewed more accurately as 'never underestimate the power that emotional abuse and manipulation can have on a vulnerable person'. You're not wrong exactly but I'm not sure what point you are trying to make. To me it makes it sound like you're saying she should have known better than to let herself get murdered.