N.B. misandry is not real because men are not systemically oppressed (uninternalize your reddit MRA today: men suffer some drawbacks under the patriarchy but ultimately still maintain it due to the large amount of privileges they receive under it!)
The only actual form of systemic oppression “misandry” contributes to is transphobia. See: Self-proclaimed “feminists” accusing trans women of having “born male privilege” or similar absurdities (worth noting, when they make these accusations, they are referring to the privilege of gender presentation and social aspects, not to the economic advantages granted to those who present male in this hellworld, which is why it is incorrect). Here of course it is worth noting that said “misandry” is actually just transmisogyny. Or in other terms 99% of the time the only people who “misandry” hurt on a systemic level is women (trans men, of course, are never truly considered men by these transphobic feminists, so their “misandry” never reaches them).
TLDR if you’re a man and you aren’t trying to defend yourself from a self-described “feminist” who’s angry at you about doing drag, shut up about misandry. And even if you ARE a drag queen I recommend bringing up how the conception of femininity being entirely constructed is deeply misogynistic instead of trying to both sides things. But feel free to complain about misandry in that situation ONLY IF you’re trying to defend your drag from gender essentialists. (And in that case I suppose there is NO reason to call it “misandry” lmao)