N.B. misandry is not real because men are not systemically oppressed (uninternalize your reddit MRA today: men suffer some drawbacks under the patriarchy but ultimately still maintain it due to the large amount of privileges they receive under it!)
What's typically called 'toxic masculinity' (that is to say the policing of "men" 's gender by other men) is actually just transmisogyny once you deconstruct it. men police other men for effeminating themselves, any step towards what might be considered "womanly" will be brutally punished.