Droggelbecher @ Droggelbecher @lemmy.world

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That person is dressed like a teenager in sims 2

And anyway, my comment was mostly about not potentially inflicting causes of your trauma on others. Because that is what usually happen when people fear not being in control... they try to control others once they have the means to do so.

You don't see how that's not a very nice thing to say to someone that just said they have complex trauma?

Where is the assumption? I was almost literally quoting you.

Look, I'm not going to convince you in a Lemmy comment chain. I just hope you can show a bit more empathy for different lived experiences in real life.

Please reread my comment: I said IF that's what you mean! I'm asking because youre explaining to other commentators how they should overcome their need for their own spaces. Also, that the need to control yourself usually leads to wanting to control others is false and a pretty mean thing to say to someone who said they feel the need to have control over themselves. Trauma does NOT make me a bad person, thank you very much. We're people too, you know. We're capable of empathy and of working on ourselves.

The explanation? I am an incredibly powerful trickster goddess. Same with my impostor syndrome.

Working on it, but I'll still be autistic and introverted. Are you assuming anyone can and should overcome the need to be alone? That would be quite ableist.

Ok but then why does my neighbour joke about the fun party night when I'm coming home from a night shift. And why does a random friend of my mums that I only know by sight tell my mum when I am and I am not home.

I'm like the person you're replying to, and for me it's very much just introversion and autism, plus a lot of complex trauma about my body and life being controlled by others.

I'm autistic and always grateful for comments like this, thanks! Sometimes I genuinely don't get it.

Sure, but I was replying to a comment thread about replacing roads and highways with cycling infrastructure.

Plus, roads are important for the people who can't walk or cycle as well as for emergency services. Goods can't all be transported by bike, either. Of course, that doesn't require multiple lanes. Part should be kept, part turned into small green spaces to compensate for the environmental effect of the road, and part should be used for separate cycling and walking spaces. It becomes a bit more complex with streets that aren't big enough for all that, of course.

Adderal is an amphetamine, which is different from methamphetamine. Not nearly as potent and addictive.

Someone once genuinely said my eyes were a beautiful interplay of melanin, lipochrome, and Rayleigh scattering (or something to that effect). Aka my eyes are green. Physicists man.

But on the other hand, why wouldn't I want the person I have sex with to have a similar amount of life experience so we can have more interesting conversations?

When I was a teen it wasn't the government I was afraid of, but digital devices were just as likely to be read as paper. What I did was keep anything I needed to be private at school, work, a friend's. Is any of that an option? Would a super old laptop with a fresh OS that you never connect to the internet be safe in your home?

Bei den DE-spezifischen Fragen (besonders Schulabschluss) wär eine 'andere' oder 'bin nicht in DE' Option noch nett. Danke fürs erstellen :)

Super tangential but this fucks with my head so much. How people would just navigate a blurry ass world until, historically speaking, very recently.

Is this about apple being made to have usb-c ports

I was made to work on vintage oscilloscopes as an undergrad and trust me, you don't want that

The fact that this kind of thinking is necessary makes me so sad and angry for you.

This is genuinely the first I'm learning those aren't a thing anymore in some places. I could swear I've seen them all over Europe.