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  • There were signs of manipulation before everything blew up but it really came to a head once my wife recognized the signs.

    I'm just glad to be out of the situation. I'm sure it's far from over but the hard cut has worked wonder's on our mental state.

    Thanks for the kind words.

  • My MIL has just been generally unsympathetic to my wife's mental health. We tried to be considerate because my MIL was raised in a different time where that kind of stuff was just shut away.

    She recently said some very nasty stuff to my wife along the lines of "You won't be a good mother because of your mental health".

    We've tried to mend that with talks but she never really understood the damage she caused. Giving half apologies like "I'm sorry you took it that way" or "I'm sorry you feel that way".

    We haven't received a true apology and we're starting to accept that we aren't going to get one. She thinks we're overreacting and tries to act like nothing is wrong and tries to interact with us as normal.

    So we finally set our boundaries for our peace of mind. And she's starting to get consequences from those boundaries.

  • My MIL recently pulled the "Think about what your doing to [my daughter]." After we recently set boundaries about her not talking to my wife until she apologizes to her for a previous incident.

    After a couple instances of non-compliance we shifted to no contact. MIL threw a fit because she "didn't know what she did wrong".

  • Loading screens are really the biggest negative for me. And navigating the menus takes some time.

    I really enjoyed Fallout 4. And it feels pretty close to that for me with MUCH better gunplay. I can feel this being a time sink for me once i can actually get my teeth sunk in to it.

  • If you can track down liquidation sales they are a pretty good source for desks, chairs and even shelving. I spent $50 on a beat up butcher block slab and with $20 worth of materials I cleaned it up into a decent looking desk.

  • Not me over-stimulating myself by going out with friends straight after work.

    But if i go home after work with the promise of going out later then my chances of actually making it back out of the house drastically go down.