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  • It is true that relationships require work, but they are worth it. It just depends on the choices you make. In the end, everything is a decision. Starting with the partner you want to share your life with and ending with the course of the relationship. We may not realise it at the time, but that's the way it is. If you love someone, you have to make an effort to be with them.

    A relationship isn't all honey, feelings are complicated and sometimes you have to put things into perspective. But if you find a great partner and a healthy relationship, you'll see that everything will fall into place.

    A toxic relationship can be more intriguing than a healthy one at times. The last one may seem boring. So it all depends on the choices you make.

    If you like being alone, that's fine, but don't lie to yourself. I did the same thing when I was younger. I believed that I didn't require anyone or that I didn't feel the way I was supposed to, but I was wrong.

    Ultimately, most of us desire to have someone to come home to. It's just up to you whether you choose a partner who will bring you peace or problems.

  • How do you stay just friends?
  • The way you present the situation, it seems that you are not willing to be just friends. And in that case, it's better to keep some distance. You will most likely end up getting hurt.

    Take some time for yourself, work through the depression and maybe even try to get to know someone else. Then you will be able to figure out how you feel about her and if there's room for a real friendship, not one where deep down you long for more.

  • My partner of 7 years just broke up with me 2 weeks before moving across the country for her
  • This is a really chaotic situation and your feelings are completely normal. But everything will sort itself out at some point. It's painful right now, but you need to know that you haven't done anything wrong. People can be lost and unsure of their feelings, but the way she did it's really bad. It speaks volumes and it seems like she doesn't care, so you should be glad you dodged a bullet.

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