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  • Coffee?

  • Oh Elon
  • Not yet, but he's already eyeing a role in government. Wouldn't surprise me if he eventually manipulated Trump into creating a special class of immigrant citizens who receive naturalization because of "service to the nation" granted by the president or some such.

  • Trump's rambling is getting worse | His speech is becoming harder and harder to understand.
  • If they listen to you, they will lose. But that's a good thing, so I hope you're right. Unlikely, but the worse Trump's loss the better.

  • Instead of Ignoring Trans Rights at DNC, Dems Should’ve Vowed to Protect Them
  • It's a pretty good assumption. You'd have to be a complete shit popsicle to vote for someone worse on all the issues you care about, because the party that gives any fucks whatsoever isn't doing enough.

  • X's move on cemetery news shows 'how damaging this explosive story is to Trump': experts
  • Don't forget who some of the investors are who helped Elon buy Twitter either. In case you missed the story.

  • I hate brioche buns!
  • I guess it's not the Ciabatta I know. Light on the inside, crispy on the outside.

  • I hate brioche buns!
  • The light crispy stuff though. It's still common in NZ. Love it.

  • I hate brioche buns!
  • When did Ciabatta buns go out of vogue?

  • Me but ublock origin
  • There is still shit to block when you're paying for premium, so yeah.

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    No thanks. I'm good.
  • If I recall Coyote Peterson's crew ate some.. yep, haha. They definitely thought some of the essence of dung carried over to the final product.

  • MAGA Turns on Joe Rogan as He Endorses RFK Jr. and Not Trump
  • It all depends who RFK takes votes from and in which states. RFK has some appeal to classical liberals who dabble in science denial, and I think they've long been part of Trump's base bizarrely - so yeah, more votes for RFK is less votes for Trump now in most cases.

  • Which will you choose?
  • I used Boost when it was for Reddit, and never looked back. It's got everything I could need so yeah. All that for Lemmy is amazing.

  • Which will you choose?
  • Fair. I paid the small one-off fee to disable ads and yeah, that's that. :)

  • Which will you choose?
  • Tell your friends about the Boost app. It makes things so much easier.

  • Good point
  • My hope would be that the girls your friend rails behave and feel the same way and their respective partners if they have them know it too, or they're single and that's their thing. Maybe they don't care about herpes, syphilis, chlamydia, or HIV either, because the thrill is worth the risk.

    I know that isn't even mostly the case and most people are behaving in ways they will later regret. But I do think there's a culture in which we can be more honest and happy with having a bit more love in our lives.

    It will take work and conversations like this are a small part of that I guess.

  • Good point
  • I would be uncomfortable with my partner hooking up with a stranger. That's a betrayal of our shared values, and creates risks for both of us (e.g. unwanted pregnancy, STDs, and general drama that could create a lot of unnecessary stress). I would rather know that she has fallen for someone we're both know preferably, and who she loves and believes she can trust implicitly. I would still feel a healthy amount of jealousy, and be worried about thing going wrong, and her being hurt. But I would trust her judgment, and trust she won't run away and leave me to raise our kid on my own. But yeah, the sex, and intimacy in this case, wouldn't bother me too much.

  • Twitter
  • I fully expect him to sell it before long and the new buyer will change it straight back again.

  • Good point
  • What makes cheating, cheating, is the betrayal of trust involved more than any specific acts of intimacy. The reality is in monogamous relationships merely falling for someone else, even without then knowing how you feel, already feels like a betrayal in your heart as a loyal partner who wishes you only had eyes for your SO and nobody else. Even porn in some cases is a betrayal. It's a whole lot of unnecessary suffering not to acknowledge how the overwhelming majority of us won't mentally thrive under these conditions. Therefore, setting expectations appropriate for your situation is key.

    For my part, my SO understands that due in part to her relatively low sex drive and complete lack of initiative, certain needs of mine aren't being met, and we've talked about it. I still love her deeply, and we have recently had a child, and I have every intention of meeting my obligations as a father and partner for the rest of my life. But, there's a real possibility I could fall for someone else one day. I already have friends who I can say I love and would jump at the opportunity to be intimidate with should they show that kid of interest. What interests me though, are loving bonds, not hookups (I mean STD risks and all sorts. Ew). I want to be close with those who I sleep with, and i want them to know I love my partner and will always be there for her and our child. But, there's space for them too, if they want in. Ideally, my partner likes and accepts them too - and the more close they are as friends (or even lovers too) the better.

    In any case, that's the dream I guess. Nothing has happened yet, and I find with a baby to look after, I'm in no rush, and certainly even with everything out in the open, it's still too much drama to navigate at the moment. But if it does happen one day, at least it won't result in a litany of lies that lead to guilt and suffering all around. At least, that's the idea. I know it will never be quite that easy in reality, but it wouldn't be life otherwise!

  • Good point
  • People aren't honest enough with each other and their own needs. Meanwhile we build other dependencies in long term relationships that have nothing to do with physical attraction, but are in most cases more important for all kinds of reasons.

    Monogamy is the basis of a lot of unnecessary suffering because it's resisting a very real need we continue to have even when our relationships become romantically stagnant. If we could all just be honest about it with our SOs without fear, and work together as we do anyway to maintain other commitments to each other, we could have a culture where there's a lot more freedom to seek more intimacy and love in a way that isn't dishonest, that isn't "cheating".

  • Biden Drops Out of Race
  • Good post. Insert maybe maybe meme!

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