There's some guy I talk to who believes the theory that the top 20 percent of dudes get 80% of women, and that because he doesn't have a brad pitt jaw and isn't 6' +, he might as well just hate women because they'll never like him anyways.
doing a bunch of work at social bullshit to subject myself to a psychological torture machine I have no control over and get no productive feedback from when ignored or rejected sounds like a really bad time. It's exactly th-literally worse than job seeking (which is bad enough to make me cw suicidal) because hiring someone is profitable and matching off users loses customers.