I agree with you kind soul. Some days this place seems like a toxic cesspool. You better not have a viewpoint that is even barely contrary to the this general populace's.
I replaced reddit with lemmy, and I'm slowly replacing lemmy with other hobbies. I've been recording more, started dabbling in warhammer and battletech, and just spending more time with my wife and kid in general. I think it's been a net positive for me that lemmy doesn't scratch the same itch reddit used to.