idk, the whole donerights' drama is very strange to me and i worry that this will turn into a lolcow / kiwifarms-esque situation.
i guess i just hope folks consider the diagnostic criteria for NPD before engaging dr and challenging it on its views or whatever. NPD is a disorder where things like self-importance, feelings of being special/unique, selfish and self-serving communication styles, needs to be admired or perceived as correct, cause someone significant impairment and distress. The more we engage, the more those NPD parts come out of dr, and i can't see how anybody wins in the end? i'm not sure
One of the more insidious ways that NPD people can exploit others is their demand for your compassion and taking advantage of it with no reciprocation.