You can just turn off or blur NSFW posts in your settings. Also why when you create an account it asks you if you want to optionally enable NSFW content. That's an already solved problem. You don't need to defederate for that.
I imagine you also have a pornhub tab open on your PC at all times so you can check in every couple of minutes and “control yourself” while you “respect reality”
then literally just don't check the "show nsfw" content when you sign up. I beg of you just to open your settings a single time and see what's there, it's not complicated.
Yeah, this seems like a really opportune time to finally make differentiation between porn/nudity and gore/violence when it comes to tags. Be it NSFW vs NSFL or whatever. Reddit should have addit it a long time ago. Lemmy should try to.
That's weird as hell but Lemmy should soon implement the block domain feature so you can block them yourself while keeping nsfw from other domains enabled. I don't get it but u do u.
Maintaining separate accounts is even easier, I've got accounts for the different ways I want to pass the time on the internet, and when I'm in the mood I use my lemmynsfw account.