Fellow Men, what are some compliments you would like to recieve?
I want to work on complimenting other men more! Specifically my goal is to compliment people on things they clearly worked hard on or put in effort, cause it sucks if you work super hard or care about something and then don't feel like anyone notices.
So I'm going to try and compliment people who:
Have really well done and unique tattoos
Are older but super athletic (It's harder and more thankless, since when you're young and athletic you're usually in sports and get lots of praise. At least that was my experience)
Have super sharp outfits
Have really nice shoes (nice shoes are expensive and keeping them clean is legit hard)
what are other good compliments we should give each other?
EDIT: Oh and I still remember when I got a compliment on what I was getting while grocery shopping. So if I see like real good food in there I'll try to throw out a "looks like you're cooking up some good stuff"
About 15-20 years ago I was at a mall by myself. A girl several years younger than me was pulling a friend behind her giggling as she ran up to me and said "HI! , I just wanted you to know that you're really pretty!" and then ran off. Her friend was yelling how she couldn't believe she actually approached me.
I've always know I've had softer features but I've never been complimented by a girl in my life at that point. The opposite had definitely happened a number of times.
I think about that positive interaction at least once a week.
So, the answer is, anything. As long as it's genuine.