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The meme is about a controversial topic which has lead to numerous debates lately where "both sides" are extremely sexist to the other. I made an statement, it wasn't subject of debate (unlike the meme).
there is no rule that the memes can’t be attached to debates
Never said that, I actually enjoy a lot of debates born from memes, so that's not the problem. I clearly said I didn't see this specific topic appropriate because of the sexist (and sometimes political) nature of it. Debates are only cool when they aren't meant to divide and create conflict-
Were you guys outspoken then?
-which you seem to try to encourage. Nice try, but I'm not changing my mind here, this post doesn't seem appropriate to me in the slightest. People here expect "haHa [insert funny akward quote]", not "let's compare ewoks to fucking rapists".
Debates are only cool when they aren't meant to divide and create conflict-
Do you know what debates are? What they are for? How they operate? A debate is always two opposing ideas, they are literally designed to divide and revolve around conflict. If you only like debates that unite and cause harmony then you don't actually like debates, you like discussions.
I clearly said I didn't see this specific topic appropriate because of the sexist (and sometimes political) nature of it.
A) Yes it's a debate about sexism and rape culture, of course it's going to involve sexism.
B) Everything is politics. People who complain about things "getting too political" just don't like the politics on display.
We are literally in a meme community revolving around an allegory for the Vietnam war where the good guys are analogous to the Vietcong. If you think Star Wars is not a place for politics then you don't understand Star Wars.
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It still shows up for me, I'll post it below for reference.
The meme is about a controversial topic which has lead to numerous debates lately where "both sides" are extremely sexist to the other. I made an statement, it wasn't subject of debate (unlike the meme).
there is no rule that the memes can’t be attached to debates
Never said that, I actually enjoy a lot of debates born from memes, so that's not the problem. I clearly said I didn't see this specific topic appropriate because of the sexist (and sometimes political) nature of it. Debates are only cool when they aren't meant to divide and create conflict-
Were you guys outspoken then?
-which you seem to try to encourage. Nice try, but I'm not changing my mind here, this post doesn't seem appropriate to me in the slightest. People here expect "haHa [insert funny akward quote]", not "let's compare ewoks to fucking rapists".
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sdfsaf
It's the Principal Skinner meme response.
"Could I be wrong about the way men behave in society that makes women feel so uncomfortable? No, it's the women who are wrong."
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sdfsaf
Oh 😂😂🤣🤣😆 you just keep giving.
Love it! 🎉🤣🤣🤣🤣
Why do you get to decide what I want to see in this community?
What did I miss?
Someone posed a very ill-formed question that results in no winners. "Would you rather find yourself in the woods with a bear or a man?"
The argument is almost designed to make men feel discriminated against and women feel like men don't listen to them. There's just enough room for everyone to bring in their own assumptions about the situation to justify their position, so everyone else feels defensive.
The only winner is the bear.
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sdfsaf
No the friendly apex predator of the woods is painted in a very bad light in a lot of these arguments. So no winners really
The bear will eat quite well.
Not from eating people, bears don't like people.
The bear is eating leftover popcorn from all the people watching the shitshow from the sidelines.
It's becoming a problem, the bears are getting too fat for winter
I don't get the context but it sounds like you are taking this personally.
That's the neat part, it doesn't matter what you say, 90% of the users on Lemmy are taking it personally.
Fair enough
That's why I said the post didn't feel appropriate to me, dragging this topic only makes it worse for everyone (even the poor ewoks), then some people started to misinterpret (some in clear bad faith) my statement and bring more hate 🙃
I'm tired of the internet, even asking for peace brings controversy nowadays...
When humans are involved, the winner is NEVER the bear.
It is basically a troll question designed to exploit the lack of immediacy, recency bias, and poorly-calibrated statistical assessment of threats, among those surveyed.
For comparison they could've placed the subjects in a room with 2 doors at the other side labeled "A" and "B" and posed the choice to the subject this way:
"Behind door A is a man randomly selected from the population. Behind door B is a bear randomly selected from the population of all bears. You have to press one of these buttons right now and whichever button you press will open the corresponding door and give either the man or the bear access to this room."
Gonna guess they would get wildly different results than they did when it was just a nebulous hypothetical.
women underestimate how dangerous bears are and overestimate how dangerous men are,
men underestimate how dangerous men are and overestimate how dangerous bears are,
everyone thinks the opposite just irrationally hates them and does it to hurt them.
There is on average 1 bear related death a year in the US. Bears do not want to hurt you, they want to be left alone. They are known quantity with known reactions and don’t approach you unless you’ve already gotten way too close.
😂🤣
Serious comedy genius.