Right? I’m sure kids are still having house parties when they get their first apartments and when their parents are out of town, but now that we’re all adults “house parties” turned into dinner parties and a quiet bottle of wine with a few friends
Additionally, there are more things to do as you get established. My friends and I have been camping, on roadtrips, on a cruise... at home we have parties for sporting events and our kids birthdays. Hell, I work in IT and we have midnight launch parties at my house occasionally.
Take it from a noise control officer, there's plenty of house parties around especially during the summer, it's just university (for Americans: college) students far younger than me blasting music, sometimes at smaller flats, sometimes in large houses rented out by 5+ students. I'm not that old either but man, not a fan of that new party music.
I'm in what most would consider a medium sized town and there are manyy houses parties per suburb (even the quiet ones) during summer. They're around for sure, just attended by people under 25.
Where I am I do mobile security patrols on night shift which mostly include site checks at various industrial sites and rest homes, and for this company also noise complaints on behalf of the city council
Nah more the introverts were finally free to turn down social invites from overbearing extroverts. Why do introverts always need to accommodate extroverts, but not the other way? Cant have a night in chilling playing games… cant always be clubbing every weekend… but no… thats boring apparently….
Covid really made it okay to say no to these people and that’s okay.
I am an introvert and I’m thankful for that. However, I still think people have generally declined in their ability to hold a good conversation over the past decade, regardless of whether or not they’re introverted or extroverted. I didn’t view that factor as related.
My comment was not an attack on any personal disposition.
I wouldn't say it was necessarily a drop, but you can socialize in so many different ways nowadays, so getting lots of people you don't really know/like together in your parents house is probably less appealing.
Lots of younger people don't drink nearly as much due to costs, so that probably factors in too.
Even when you do know everyone.. I threw a house party last month, and before it I went around and made sure any prescription drugs were locked away. You just don't know who secretly has a pill problem..
For me, it's more about liability. If I provide you liquor and you get drunk and drive home and kill someone in an auto accident, they can sue me. Hell, you can sue me.
You just made me feel the oldest. I spent 2010-2015 in a constant stream of house parties. And yeah, they're not. Our society has been really rapidly breaking down for the last decade. I'm not saying it's because of the rise of fascism, but they're definitely correlated. I'd guess they both have a similar root cause of a vanishing middle class as the upper classes steal more and more from society at large
We have assembled inside this ancient and insane theater to propagate our lust for life and flee the swarming wisdom of the streets. The barns are stormed, the windows kept, and only one of all the rest to dance and save us with the divine mockery of words. Music inflames temperament. When the true king's murderers are allowed to roam free, a thousand magicians arise in the land.
Where are the feasts we were promised?