Be there for your ladies

I also love being there for my girlfriend to tie her shoe laces!
- As long as the shoes don't smell...
- Wholesome.

I don't want to sound like an incel, and I like eating vag/salad as much as the next guy, but imagine this image with the genders reversed
- IMO either party doing this is fine as long as it's discussed and within the comfort bounds of the people in the relationship.
  I think the problem is an expectation when there has been no discussion about whether or not it's within someone's limits.
  
  I have no issue with oral sex between consenting adults. But this meme would not be as well received if the genders were reversed. It's hard to even imagine someone posting "always be there for your man in a time of crisis" with the woman going down on the guy.
- Yes i imagined it, very nice. Whats the next step?
- I agree that it would look quite different with the genders reversed. However, gender equality is not like mathematical equality, where every situation needs to be reversible.
  Women have traditionally been less sex-positive and less dominant, which many consider indicators of a lack of true gender equality, so a progressive community will celebrate a reversal of that.
  
  Bad behavior is still bad behavior, regardless of who's doing it. The oppressed engaging in the same behavior as their former oppressors is not equality, it's just more oppression.
  
  But situations regarding the handling of power dynamics and standards of consent/coercion absolutely should be reversible.
- Nothing wrong with a consenting partner
  
  Yes, but not quite the point I was making
  
  I guess the problem is the assumption that the man is consenting. A meme is not a place to go for realistic depictions of sex, though. I think this one is playing off that to create conflict/engagement.
- Man, it's not a great message. But as far as jokes/memes go, this is funny as hell
  
  I mean, yours is objectively funnier aswell. This one falls pretty flat.
  
  The real tragedy is that either of these pass as comedy these days. The bar couldn't be lower.
- Everyone here will pretend they would be fine with it now that you called out the hypocrisy. Or they'll argue men deserve it as some kind of "payback", in which case it's really not about equality of course.
  
  I'm sorry, they'll argue that men deserve what as a form of payback? Cause you're phrasing it like there's some kind of discrmination or persecution against men going on here and I fail to see it.
- What would be the issue then? 2 consenting people can show each other what they want sexually, no matter the gender
- It would be fine in a porn comic, but provoke a scandal in a "regular" memes community
  
  There are plenty of memes which are sexist towards women. They just aren't perceived as sexist but simply as "funny".
- In my mind she has a cock. She also is built like an amazon, so she can just lift me up and flip me round for some standing 69. Nice
- Its the internet. No imagination needed
- I didn't understand your comment at first because I thought the cartoons were both women. (I guess the one on the right had a bit of facial hair and masculine features.)
  Switching it to two guys wouldn't make a difference but I can see how male-left, female-right might look worse. But it really shouldn't.
  It's a short cartoon. I read it as a playful, consenting couple having fun with each other. I don't think it's one partner luring the other in on false pretenses of an emergency and forcing them to perform oral sex. The gender arrangement shouldn't affect that.
  
  But it would. That's the whole point.
  If the genders were reversed it would be seen completely differently.
  It shouldn't but it will.
  
  And yet
- I ain't never dined at the Y, I am by any reasonable definition an incel..
  But geez dude, lighten up.
- Yeah! And that's why men are actually the ones being discriminated against! /s
  You're not wrong but you're completely missing the point
  
  And what is that point exactly? Women get horny too some times? Men need to do oral sex more often? Please enlighten me.
- Unless you have proof, this claim of yours is simply a fantasy. In fact, you can find plenty of spaces online where memes like this one, but with the genders reversed, are shared and well liked and sometimes they even mean what they depict unironically.
  Actually, this very posts proofs you wrong, since yours and the comment "Bonk" (which just means "too horny") are the top liked comments.
  It really does seem like you just want to soapbox an opinion.
  
  You can find spaces online for literally any position you like.
  I concede your point that my comment got upvoted but 1) I didn't know how many upvotes it would get before I commented and 2) The post itself is still heavily upvoted. I'm just offering a dissenting opinion to the post's popularity; I'm not on a soapbox.
  
  https://youtu.be/ppeWkO_8uQ8?si=v4d3I99Rg5pjkTEc

Bonk
- Believe it or not…
  
  We never have boners because of horny jail!
- Your username gave me some major nostalgia. I think I played iRO like nearly 20 years ago! Even rolled a Super Novice lol
  
  YES! Always great to meet another fan.
  If you look back through my comment history, I had a looong nostalgia trip with another Lemmy user about the good ol’ days.
  I still miss playing RO, but I usually go back and play on a pserver once a year around December. I just crave killing Elder Willows for some Dead Branches so I can fight random monsters :)

While we're on the topic. Everybody needs to read a book about pleasuring their partners.
She comes first
Her guide to going down
I'm sure you can get more focused content for your particular situation if you looked for it, but don't assume you know what You're doing. Read and make the world a better place.
- The Ultimate Guide to Cunnilingus, is also a good one.
  She comes first, second, third, fourth and fifth if my neck and her heart can take the strain.
  
  Damn my spelling!
  I've been trying to satisfy my spouse by learning stealthy puns in Proto-Indo European. So now I'm a cunning linguist.
- Fuck her
  
  But you don't always have to fuck her hard
  
  Ideally, yes.
  
  Right in the pussy

Whatever scant humor this comic possessed, has been irretrievably destroyed by the pedants in the comments.
- cunning linguists they are not.
- I was really not expecting so much, i sent it to the lady im dating she laughed so i posted it. Like most comments ive ever gotten on a meme were 6.

Aren't memes supposed to be funny? This just looks like a shitty Tumblr post.
- It is funny. Might not be your humor but others find it funny
- Haha 450 up 55 down, so 8 times as many people think its funny then dont.
  Haha 3 times as many people dislike this comment
  
  Wait, we can see the upvote / downvote ratio?
  
  Look at the username. Might as well be ClownShoes.

Panel 3: titty eye contact, he accepts his fate lol

- Same same same

What the hell is wrong with people in this comment section? yeah if the genders were reversed blah blah blah be pragmatic and enjoy that pussy ffs.
- I'm available for objectification. Anyone?... Anyone?
  
  No
- My blocklist has grown by leaps and bounds though, so there's that.

Is there a community for horny nsfw memes that isn’t actually porn? Asking for a friend of course.
- !nsfwmemes@lemmynsfw.com

- You get it

More importantly. Does that guy have a beard or is that just part of his hair?
- It’s part of his hair, and grows on his chin.

I would be there for my lady...
If i had one!

Cringe

Itchy yeast infection?
- What a terrible day to know how to read

Where's the original from? Asking for a friend

girls

I think I have to poop

- Seems to me you are making a lot of assumptions. You see sexual abuse, I see four frames that could be me and my wife. In either role.
  It's a four panel comic. Why you would choose to decide that consent is absent, and also decide that everyone else has to feel the same way, is beyond me.
- Probably because there is much less likelihood that the male is being physically forced to do this.
  Heck, if you want to go into who in society is typically in roles of power, there's also much less chance of the guy being coerced to do this by power dynamics.
- It's not that serious bro

men bad gib upvotes ty
- How is going down on your woman anything to do with man hate?