I have such an easy time on dating sites. If they message me first I know it's a bot. 100% of the time the next message is either a link or asking if I have some random off site messaging thing they'll send me a link on.
I guess they see my profile and know think "he's gotta be desperate, just look at that pathetic fuck."
I actually forgot that was a thing! I liked the sites that let you actually have a decent bio like plenty of fish and okcupid since I really want to know about the person and not just how attractive they can look in a picture :/
Then okcupid became tinder 2.0 swipe only and pof is apparently trying to become a streaming service...