5:01 and Done: No One Wants to Schmooze After Work
5:01 and Done: No One Wants to Schmooze After Work
Office happy hours, client dinners and other after-hours work gatherings lose their luster as more people feel the pull of home.
Office happy hours, client dinners and other after-hours work gatherings lose their luster as more people feel the pull of home
Patience for after-hours work socializing is wearing thin.
After an initial burst of postpandemic happy hours, rubber chicken dinners and mandatory office merriment, many employees are adopting a stricter 5:01-and-I’m-done attitude to their work schedules. More U.S. workers say they’re trying to draw thicker lines between work and the rest of life, and that often means clocking out and eschewing invites to socialize with co-workers. Corporate event planners say they’re already facing pushback for fall activities and any work-related functions that take place on weekends.
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Ah yes I can decide between spending time with my wife and children or hanging out with coworker talking about work I've just been in for 8 hours. What a hard choice
This and this other comment are stark opposites of life.
Poor guy - I only work for the money - if I'd have enough money I would only spend time with my wife ane children and family and friends.
I absolutely love spending time with my kids, don't get me wrong.
They're seeing the abuse and it's terrifying. Luckily she sleeps in until about 2pm on weekends, so I use those mornings (including this morning) to take them to the park and spend time with them.
I've been trying to leave but she keeps threatening to take them away. I don't know what to do. I'm going to call a divorce lawyer on Monday.
I do absolutely everything for my kids. I cook dinner every night, I bathe them every night, I get them ready and take them to school every morning. I am a man so I'm terrified the court will rule in her favor and she'll take them away.
At night I'm reminded of how horrible of a person and father I am. I'm so tired of it.
Edit: I also absolutely love my job. I work on photocopiers. I feel like I help the community and make people happy. My job almost feels like a hobby to me. I am high functioning autistic and my obsession is anything mechanical, so it's the perfect job for me.
Mate you need evidence - collect a lot of evidence. Video and audio recording - messages - witnesses - everything you can get.
Hope you make it!