How to Get a Girlfriend, Boyfriend, or Themfriend
How to Get a Girlfriend, Boyfriend, or Themfriend
Here’s my best advice on how to get a girlfriend, or a boyfriend, or a themfriend. The advice you get from friends is nice, but wrong. Here's why
I'm sure there's people out there that this is genuinely great advice for, but at least from my perspective, it just reads like an extremely long way to say almost nothing. "be out there and be confident" is like the most basic possible dating advice, ever, and is really only useful if you're completely off track on things. And to some extent, I feel like the article did itself a disservice by making it entirely gender neutral, because like it or not, society still tends to be highly gendered, and the problems people face in dating tend to be different along gendered lines.
“be out there and be confident”
But that's what it boils down to in the end - especially for men. Decent looking women and above can even leave out the second part completely.