What are you into sexually that you get judged for the most?
What are you into sexually that you get judged for the most?
No judgement here please! Everyone should be free to speak their truth.
Buttholes, but absolutely no scat or farting. I absolutely love smelling and licking a butthole that is clean, preferably at the end of the day with all the natural pheromones. And anal sex of course, nothing better than a girl who takes it in the ass.
Sissy stuff. Taking dildos/prostate toys in my butt, sucking off dildos, wearing panties and ultra fem dresses, humiliation (I like the fantasy of a dominatrix "exposing" me to her friends and all of them joining together to verbally and physically humiliate/degrade me), etc. I'm also into puppy play which a lot of people seem to confuse with being a furry but they're not the same (they probably do overlap a lot though).
I'm not necessarily a tough guy in the outside world but am generally considered to be fairly manly in my day job and my life in general. Basically not like a construction worker or anything but more like a head general contractor or project manager on a construction site. This type of fantasy play I guess is a bit of an escape from my daily reality.
I have been judged for being into CNC, DDLG and even for enjoying being choked 😭
Sadly this judgement is mostly from fellow women who assume a woman couldn't possibly be into these things by herself and that it has to mean a man forced me to pretend I am into them. I think this is a stupid take that takes away from the autonomy of women.
Also someone legit kink shamed me about DDLG saying that people who are into that are either p*dophiles or enabling p*dophilia. And that with the knowledge/specification that all parties involved are consenting adults, and they even continued insisting on this judgment after I also specified that there are no other inappropriate power dynamics/imbalances at play. That really pissed me off.
What are those acronyms? CNC stands for something very non-sexy in my world.
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I think it stands for "consensual non-consent" but I do know next to nothing about that sort of kink so you may have to wait for better answers from someone else.
Computer numeric control. Quite a turn on for me.
Many people just dont understand certain kinks. Choking makes me have the biggest orgasms.
I had such a hard time with choking. I'm too afraid I would crush their windpipe, when I was in my 20's. I only really did the choking when she wanted my belt to do it herself. Self choking with a belt is a good way to die.
Now I have control and understand how to safely cut off blood supply and not totally close the airway.
But it's been a decade since I was with a woman last.
I want to get used by a large dicked trans, males just don't do it for me, but I want to know what it's like to taken by a domineering woman. This is a new thing for me, since Quitting Hard drugs in the 2000s I haven't had any sexual urges until I started taking prescribed meds (not sure which one is causing this) but now I'm a massive sub and I have no idea where that comes from. My wife has told me multiple times through the years that she will never top or go near anal plus she's also super submissive.
Maybe hire a trans dominatrix. Could be a lot of fun.
I'm a fan of all things pee. Omorashi is what got me into it, but now I love when a big cock pisses all over me.
Have you found any active community on lemmy yet? I did not...
Not that I’d call them active, but here are the ones I’ve seen (hopefully I do the link formatting right…)
Yep! peeing on each other, in each other, on our faces. Getting downright KINKY! Just wicked red hot wet sex. My last long term girlfriend and I enjoyed it sooooo much.
Anal
Fake cum. I know most people don't like it, and it's not the fake cum itself that I like, but mostly it's the sticky "shlick shlick" sounds I love when it's being played with.
Normal porn is usually cumshot, zoom in, smile, roll credits. Meh.
Butt stuff, those harness style underwear and harnesses in general, chokers. (Nothing too bdsm-y, just the style is sexy) That heavy egirl makeup with the winged eyeliner. Filming and taking private pictures.suoer sloppy blowjobs. Fishnets. thigh high socks with the stripes.
We rarely do anything but my wife likes lace underwear as her limit, and hand stuff. Sometimes PiV.
She gives me a lot of shit and judges me for asking for these things, but on the grand scheme of things I feel like I'm not that crazy.
Being super cuddly/handsy. I'm super affectionate, and I've had a couple of partners call me a perv because of it, which causes me to shut down 😅
r/sounding
There's no equivalent community on lemmy yet unfortunately.
You can create one yourself. I helped mod r/Femdom_sounding for a few years.
Ohh I had to Google it and while I am not here to kink shame, the thought of sticking things in my urethra makes me so damn uncomfortable ahhhh
I get it seems extreme to people who haven't tried it, but it's really not and I recommend at least trying it. Read up how to do it safely (VERY CLEAN and VERY LUBED) and start small and work your way up. It's honestly the best sensation I've ever felt. It's thrilling and gives the best most explosive orgasms of my life. Amazing feeling. 10/10
CNC (sub) and smooth armpits. I'm gay, so most of the armpit folks are in it for the hairy one. I love em smooth.
I have been judged for exploring CNC as well. I get it that it’s not for everyone. I have only actually engaged in CNC with an ex partner I fully trusted. But when I have discussed it with others, some have judged and assumed that boundaries can be pushed and ignored due to my interest in it.
That really shows the bad character of those people who assume interest in CNC means no boundaries
Financial Domination