Even incels who aren't white seem to have a weird fascination with white women.
Though I think I answered my own question in that it's probably due to lingering effects of colonialism and whites being broadcast everywhere as the definition of what is attractive
They are. But they’re also self identifying as incels or have sympathy with them. They’re willing to murder a bunch of random white people because they love the white race so much
Elliot Rogers was the result of a white supremacist white guy marrying and Asian woman. This made him insecure because about his looks for obvious reasons. He's an incel because of racism, not the other way around.
Also plenty of incels are obsessed with Asian women. I've met many of them in real life.
I don't understand how you can know enough to ask this question without understanding that most anglophone-internet incels are so racist they make the Klan look like a HOA.
Incel "theory" is rife with male hierarchy, and misogyny and valuation/objectification is a major part of male hierarchy. White women are at the top of the value list because of racism
Cultural conditioning to perceive Caucasian women as the ethno-hetero-normative standard in life. American cultural hegemony has also spread this cultural perception world-wide as a side-effect of the expansion of American Capital into foreign markets.
I believe a simpler way to put this, quoting Bambu, is that the standard of beauty is truly rooted in whiteface
White supremacy causes white incels to feel entitled to white women then feel betrayed and self loathing when they don’t get white girls, and they become murderous when a non white guy dates them
White supremacy also causes non-white incels to feel entitled and self loathing because they don’t get white girls, and then they become even angrier when girls from their culture/race are put off with that behavior
Non-white incels with debilitating internalized racism. I knew a Latino guy who was basically that way. He got into trouble for racially harassing these two black kids in his grade, which was ironic because his main victim was super pale (imagine Logic or Ice Spice) while he was really dark-skinned Chicano. He was insufferable to listen to, though. The only non-offensive thing he talked about was white girls, which was still pretty gross.
Classical fetishist: Wants a white, submissive, whore-and-madonna wife because he believes in the purity of the white race and wants a nuclear family to live off the grid
Nu-Fetishist: Hates white women because they’ve been rejected by them or perceive them as too brainwashed by woke communist/Jewish propaganda and only want 15 inch chad cocks and show their boobs everywhere. Wants an Asian wife because she’s perceived as docile and submissive and conservative. Also wants her to be a whore-and-madonna
Reverse Nu-Fetishist: Hates [their group’s] women because of the same reasons as the Nu-Fetishist, but he prefers white women because she’s perceived as more intelligent and socially valuable
Notice I didn’t say incel because it’s generally a right wing pathology
How could they be incels if they desire a relationship with another person? Sounds like they broke character lmao.
They're not obsessed with actual white women (or any romantic partner for that matter), they're obsessed with the rhetoric of patriarchy. Their anger is not that patriarchy exists but that they feel left out. They believe that they and only they can perfect it.
Inceldom is what happens when people recognize patriarchy but believe it to be so innate that resistance to it would be futile.
I see, I always thought that incels were suppossed to be some sort of stoic group and that them pining for a relationship was suppossed to be the mask off moment, but I see it's more complicated than that.
I imagine they wouldn’t be happy even if they do get to participate in the patriarchy. They hate themselves more than anything, as seen with their negative feedback loop in the community. They watch too many movies and anime and think some hot girl will fix their lives for them while they play Mario all day