Anon lives differently than his peers

I don't feel the need to post my life online... Continues to post personal story online

Doesn't live online --->>> posts on 4chan

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NGL if you have a flip phone now, you're either a contract killer, a drug dealer and or a stage 5 weirdo.

loner, but not autistic or ugly so I get invited out pretty often

Oof. This hurt to read

I know this is likely fake, but I have gotten that reaction from people. Folks really find it strange when you don't have social media. The times it really sucks is when they think you're lying and just don't want to add them.

If you don’t have lemmy nobody will fuck you.

you have xmpp? -no...

Matrix, Briar, SimpleX? -no

gotta have Email at least? ... ... no 🧐

Being on 4chan a wayyy bigger red flag than using a flip phone most of the time.

Of course, I imagine he pulled the phone out and opened it in one smooth motion.

I am terminally online and even I don't want to engage with someone I know IRL through social media. We don't need to be on discord or Instagram or Reddit to talk 1 on 1. We can just fucking text. Like on the phone. No, I don't want to download Kik or whatsapp or any other random, sketchy app. We can text through the phone.

Shes gonna think you're handing her a burner phone dude lmao

If you don't like social media, why would you pretend to like social media to attract someone else who REALLY REALLY cares about social media? It's bound to fail.

Ive missed out on job opportunities because i dont keep any socials. There have been a couple companies ive applied to that i got a callback from after the interviews where they basically said my lack of online presence was a red flag for them. Like wtf does it matter if i use facebook or linkden or whatever? I get that it helps them get a feel for the candidate before hiring them, but still...

Always lead with "I don't have any social media."

I'm not like the other girls boys.

Anon's "flip phone"

Hey I want to look at 4chan stuff like this but not get flashed with porn, any tips?

This is why I keep a Bare-bones instagram account,despite not using social media.

A drug dealers flip phone. Lol

Lemmy is it for me. Oh and a discord server with my gaming buddies. The rest of it just feels pretty gross.

Folks wanna know what they're getting into. Your social media feeds are an easy indicator. Your twitter all retweets of Andrew Tate? Facebook filled with pics of you dressed up like a leather dog? Truth social? Concerning for many women.

qt3.14 🤮

I reallly hope any girl I meet uses lemmy.

This just makes me even happier that I've been with my (now) wife since sophomore year of highschool so I don't have to deal with this mess of a dating environment

Ah, another excuse I can add to my pile of excuses I tell myself about why I don't try to date.

No social media.

It hurts because Telegram and Discord are the only chat apps I use lol.. SMS are not included.

anon should’ve pulled out his Lemma and asked for her username (not that you can follow anyone here afaik) he would’ve smashed that instant

You want my social media? I hope you love pictures of my cat.

If he texts girls with that phone they'll go "green text? Don't talk to that guy" anyway.

This happened. 100%.

Smartest Anon.

I got unmatched on Tinder and called a psycho for not having socials. Checks out.

Bro livre under the botnet

Just get What's app for this purpose bro

She proably saved his life. If she said she's 14, she's probably 12. Girls always lie about their age at that age. My ex-wife was still pining for a dude she dated when she was 15; he was 24 at the time. When we met in HS she was 16 and I was 18. She said she was 17 (her birthday was 3 months away), but a lie is a lie.

Wait, am I the only one disturbed by the "be 19" and the "meet a cutie 14 girl"?

I mean none of these are ever true but it still feels bleeh to read!

While like others have said this is probably fake.

That said, there is a middle ground. Any one refusing to use ANY social media probably has issues...

Those acting like this is normal, would give someone who refuses to have a cell phone weird looks or what about any phone at all?

For people refusing to use LinkedIn (or similar), that's the same as refusing to have a resume pre Internet

Don't expect society to bend to you, you're NOT special.