Also, learn Spanish. If you speak English, Spanish isn't that difficult to learn. Spanish is a Latin language while English is Germanic, but they're both Indo-European which means that they have a lot more in common with one another then, say, English vs Mandarin or Arabic.
When I was a cook in west Hollywood I was basically the only white dude in the kitchen. Honestly was the best time I had with coworkers while I was there. They were hard, good, and funny workers. One night after a super stressful shift one of the other cooks was giving me a ride home and we stopped at a gas station he came back with two 40's and said "this is for the relax". I'll never forget that crew.
What kind of bartender doesn't have friends? Like 75% of a bartenders job is being social, many people trade therapists and priests for bartenders, and many bartenders take that seriously and work therapy into their reportoire, Bartenders are often somebody's favorite person, whether they know it or not. The whole point of bartending is the tips, and you have to be able to socialize for those tips.
Typical greentext where 4chan dummy writes about a job they only know about from TV in order to make some hamfisted attempt to seem cool and not racist while still kinda being racist.
That sounds like exactly the "bullshit stereotype lifted straight from a movie" that you're trying to pin on others.
Real life isn't a Billy Joel song. All that 99 out of 100 people need from a bartender is "What can I get you?" followed by getting it.
Even more bizarrely, do you honestly think that a stranger who is drunk and oversharing qualifies as a friend? Do you think therapists have patients, or do you think they've just got a lot of super cool friends they hang out with all day?
When I worked for a big hotel company, people didn't care about the bartender. While I was there, the cooks received a small tip and said they never received one. I think it depends where you are bartending. Party with drunk people? Yeah that's your scenario. Rich people that only look/talk to you to ask for something, my case and maybe anons case. I didn't find anything racist, tho. Would like to know what is racist/xenophobic.