Neither did I. I may still not understand it. But I googled salon article and found a site with that name that publishes progressive news and opinions. So I guess they are saying a lot of couples are opposite in opinion on these things. They might be joking about the one spouse being oblivious to their partners racism or having double standards or something.
Sometimes the gal can be racist. My friends tried to hook me up with a cute lady who had an amazing accent. Turns out, she was south-african and very quickly let me know that ending apartheid was a mistake because "some people just can't prepare for modern life".
You're absolutely right. The comic above is absolutely prejudiced, it's just targeting a group that's seen as more privileged, and thus "punching up" and so it's ok. BS is what it is.
Sure sure. So if I made a post essentially saying 1 in 3 black men are violent, it's only racist if you believe black men are violent. Says more about you than anyone else.