Note I don't really argue with her anymore, she's far, far, too long gone. (She's MtF trans but also an anti-"groomer" psycho... don't ask) I just ask probing questions/statements which is why I didn't go off on her
You should mention to her that the amount of wealth loss by slavery, segregation, Jim Crow laws and systematic racism, have given white people an unfair advantage and doesnt allow black people to have a fair chance. We dont get equal opportunities and our starting point is way way way more back than yours.