How do you hold your haj?
How do you hold your haj?
Dear Blåhaj community! I have an important question to ask! Mr. Haj and I have been struggling with our in-bed relationship recently. He wants to be held and I want to hold him, but I don't want him to feel squished or stomped upon my me. I want him to feel as good as he can, while also feeling my love. I am very self-conscious about my disgusting masculine body-oils and I don't want them to get on my pretty haj. Also I don't want to lay my head on him, because that might hurt him. He might say that it doesn't, but I think he just says that to make me feel better (he's really sweet). After a while of trying to hold him in a way which can make both of us happy, I tend to get sore after about five minutes, after which I have to put him on the side... But he's lonely over there! What if he thinks I don't like him because I'm putting him on the side? I want him to feel the best he can, but I feel like my presence in the bed is bad for him in most ways. He has to endure my stink, my disgusting body-oils and my rants about the world. I feel like I'm dragging him down and I am willing to change myself to make him feel better.
What do you think I can or should do?
Usually one is on my right side, the other on my left and the minihaj lays on top of me. Then I just hold them all at the same time. And for them to not be lonely, they have each other all the time :3
Don't currently own one, but I assume like this:
Depends on the eepyness level, sometimes I lay The Chosen Ones on top of me and huggg, or I lie on my side if I'm more eepy because faster zzz, so I hug them in front of me, or if I just fell into bed after a long day of cuddling shorks, I sometimes lie on top of them because most comfy when body ouchie and mind already eeping
But most sharkies I know don't mind being squeeshed a bit, especially when massaged by kitten
Unfortunately I don't have kittens, but thank you for the advice! Your comment is greatly appreciated!