What you described seems pretty normal. It actually took me a few months before I was fully comfortable with being called my new name. I also had to use it online for a while before I was willing to try being called it in person.

The first time coming out is always the hardest. I'm glad to hear that it went decently well!

Hi

Character creation/editor would be amazing.

A quest log would be great.

A status screen.

Skill increases/level up.

Female or possibly demi-girl. The distinction doesn't make any practical difference to me, so I usually just go by female. I'm trans if that makes a difference in your graph.