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    Fucking hilarious! I didn't get banned! Common mods, don't you stand by your values? I'm not "aggressively pro trans" or whatever so let's do this! Ban the ENBY.

  • AITA for calling my ex girlfriend a cheater while she denied it
  • She claims it changed a month ago but never said it's over between us concretely, neither did I ask, so that's on me.

    Dude.. Just no. If she was done with the relationship it was her responsibility to inform you. Don't gaslight yourself just because it's hard to be upset with her.

    If you were in a relationship and she didn't end it, and then proceeded to date someone else, that's cheating.

    She could have just told you, she chose to go behind your back. And it's not because she was scared of hurting you, if that was the case she wouldn't have cheated on you.

    Good luck out there.

  • AITA for calling my ex girlfriend a cheater while she denied it
  • She had also expressed that she was ok with me seeing the pics I had of her, knowing well that many of those were wildly sexual (she even sent a :( when I said I'd delete them)

    She's the asshole for how she's dealt with this entire situation. Those are mixed friggen signals. She sounds fucking greasy. Best of luck.

  • AITA for expectinf my partner to spend time with me instead of playing DND?
  • Okay... So based on this new info I'm going with YTA. You know this is his main hobby, you know he's passionate about it, you guys have talked about it in the past, why make drama? Why spend your time trying to make him feel wrong? If you don't want to be with the guy as he is, you don't have to be with him.

    And he's either an asshole or socially dense. If he knows you're unhappy, and he's just letting the relationship drag out, fuck that.

  • Google raising price of YouTube Premium to $13.99 per month
  • I just don't care 🙌

    I seriously couldn't give two fucks about supporting influencers or tech companies. Uploaders can pay for the infrastructure for all I care. Like people use to host websites out of passion, now everything is about profits, and politics, why would I want to support that? Why should I give two fucks about making someone else rich?

    Fuck that shit. You can get cracked copies of the YouTube App that give a much better experience.

  • Listen to the marginalized rule
  • The fact that they already have significantly better outcomes in terms of land stewardship compared to dominant groups.

    Generalizations suck. Over 80% of Canada is undeveloped. And just aside from that, our ecological issues are far greater then land stewardship.

    The fact that only those in a marginalized community will be able to effectively understand and create policy that addresses marginalization in meaningful ways.

    I don't see how this is relevant.

    The fact that nearly every truly meaningful radical idea has already come out of marginalized groups, and will, by all available evidence, continue to do so.

    Oh really? EVERY truly meaningful radical idea has come out of marginalized groups? You're telling me white people haven't contributed at all? Seriously.. That's the position you're taking.

    Ultimately my problem with everything you're saying is it's rooted in racism. I can't support that shit.

  • Listen to the marginalized rule
  • The noble Savage trope is itself a racist trope that came out of colonial Europeans bigoted beliefs that indigenous could not possibly be civilized, and thus that any seemingly civilized points made by an indigenous person were actually made by Europeans as a critique of their own culture. Look into Kandiaronk and Lahontan. There is mountains of proof that not only did Kandiaronk exist, but that he directly participated in debates with the European governments that colonized the area he was from. There is Absolutely no evidence that any of what Kandiaronk said was anything other than his own words, yet the noble savage myth allows Europeans to claim that he couldn’t possibly have done so. So, no, I don’t think this is noble savage stuff, and I think the noble savage myth serves primarily to prevent meaningful critique from coming from outside of the dominant hierarchies by infantilizing indigenous people.

    Regardless of what Kamdiaronk said I don't think it's right to stereotype indigenous people right here right now.

  • Listen to the marginalized rule
  • The noble Savage trope is itself a racist trope that came out of colonial Europeans bigoted beliefs that indigenous could not possibly be civilized, and thus that any seemingly civilized points made by an indigenous person were actually made by Europeans as a critique of their own culture. Look into Kandiaronk and Lahontan. There is mountains of proof that not only did Kandiaronk exist, but that he directly participated in debates with the European governments that colonized the area he was from. There is Absolutely no evidence that any of what Kandiaronk said was anything other than his own words, yet the noble savage myth allows Europeans to claim that he couldn’t possibly have done so. So, no, I don’t think this is noble savage stuff, and I think the noble savage myth serves primarily to prevent meaningful critique from coming from outside of the dominant hierarchies by infantilizing indigenous people.

    Regardless of what Kamdiaronk said I don't think it's right to stereotype indigenous people right here right now.

  • Listen to the marginalized rule
  • Other people seem to have no issue understanding. I think my coconut comment was on point, and the fact that you responded referencing Luddites shows I've explained myself perfectly fine.

    What specifically don't you understand about me saying I think this is hypocritical?

  • Listen to the marginalized rule
  • we need to listen to these marginalized communities.

    Dude... Why are you speaking as if you're not indigenous now?

    and that it is likely that even my best of ideas will be lacking in intersectional analysis that is needed to develop real, powerful solutions.

    It turns out the solution to global warming was friendship all along 🌈

  • Men. Abuse. Trauma. [Video on codependency]

    Hey 😋 I just wanted to contribute what I found to be a really interesting video. It's a bit out there, but I hope some people will find the value in it.

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    hmmm.. Wish I could turn off the alt text 😅 Sorry!

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