Djfok43 @ Djfok43 @lemmy.world

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I mean, he did occasionally say turd-like things but everyone has flaws. He also said he wishes I was prettier so he wouldn't have doubts about marrying me lol.

He meant it in the context of telling me I treated him worse than his friends do, and he said that after we got into an argument once. His friends are more like acquaintances and he has never had to live with them.

Honestly I wish I could remember wtf actually happened (apart him constantly trying to leave when there was an issue instead of trying to solve it). That was a common pattern. Like if I would ever communicate to him anything that "bugged" me, he would just be like "do you want me to leave I feel like I'm just making you unhappy" and I would be like "no I do not want you to leave are you insane" but then he would keep mentioning leaving or booking a flight back and eventually I was just like.. I think bro just wants to leave

We had to cohabitate temporarily, somewhat soon after first meeting in person, and I think the learning curve of me being his first gf plus that was just too much for him to handle

Either way it became exhausting after a while being the only person who wanted to make the relationship work

Thanks for the response. I could be totally wrong but I feel like the country where I'm currently living doesn't have anything for me in it and I don't think I will be happy here. On the other hand I don't know how much better it will be elsewhere. I just feel like the people here are generally awful, especially in the city I live where all the jobs are. I can't move cause of that, and also the pollution in other places is even worse, and if I go to some village it will only be old people there. So yeah life does seem quite limited.

My only solution is moving somewhere else but I'm worried it'll just be a waste of time and money and unnecessary stress, maybe I should just accept my fate here, idk.

It's uncertain what exactly, but something weird is definitely going on

I thought he was no longer in charge of 4chan

I don't get it, who are they getting ad revenue from? Thought it was just random people using their website to sell their stuff, why would they care about how "politically correct" the website is? They can just find literally anywhere else to advertise

No, I don't think that has always been the case at all. When I was looking back at old posts people would be completely shocked if someone would get banned from 4chan, because it would be very hard to get banned and you'd have to do something really bad. That's just not the case anymore. I've also heard of people paying for a pass and getting banned for bs reasons too.

I am not :/ I'm telling u guys this is definitely a recent thing. I don't exactly know what their motives are but it's kind of scary tbh

You're not wrong but it doesn't make it less devastating. I've been using it for years and not even gotten banned a single time. And now in the past few weeks this, and then I check the rules and it all makes sense. I always saw it as a fall back option when I wanted to talk to someone. It used to be reddit but I got banned for some complete bs, it used to be discord but they totally ruined it too... Then I thought I at least had 4chan but no longer

no the website is just bots /s

maybe, but the rules were never like this. I've tried searching the web about people being unfairly banned and I barely found anything. They're definitely changing things.

It's messed up to get banned for life without any warning, explanation or second chances. Literally how would anyone know the rules have changed unless they read them every day?

It's gonna be hard for people to find out though, because most search results on Google are reddit ones, and people who go on 4chan are much more likely to be banned from reddit. So that's why I wanted to post this here. I know I'm not the only one and I suspect alternative websites will only grow in the future.

Cause the name is hard to remember.. I was trying to yesterday and the closest I could get is megatron and megalodon

I don't believe in the one true love bs. I thought that about my first real boyfriend. Then I got over that eventually.

The point is this person was objectively better than most. That's different. It's not even about love.

Anyway I've never liked this line of thinking, it's very just world fallacy-esque. "Its your fault if things don't work out because you brought this upon yourself and deserve it" no thanks

I mean I'm ready for something new but everything is a massive disappointment